TV host Andy Cohen has two children, Benjamin and Lucy, whom were born through gestational surrogacy.
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As celebrities openly embrace their LGBTQIA+ identity, queer relationships are increasingly legally and culturally significant. Pride Month celebrates how far modern love has come, but it also spotlights the work still needed to protect relationships, families, and the businesses couples build together. Behind every engagement announcement, breakup post, and co-parenting update is a legal framework that often goes unnoticed. For LGBTQIA+ couples especially, the public stories we see can offer practical lessons about prenups, parenthood, privacy, and partnership.
Love and Livelihoods
Any LGBTQIA+ couple, whether dating or married, that mixes business with pleasure should do so carefully. When two partners work together, collaborate on content, or build a shared brand, they should first think about confidentiality, ownership, compensation, and what happens if the relationship changes. Those agreements matter not only for romantic partners who share a company, but also for couples whose careers, sponsorships, or intellectual property may overlap in ways that may create conflict later.
For public couples, the stakes can be even higher because professional visibility often adds another layer of complexity. A sponsored post, a joint appearance, or a cross-promotional deal may look simple on the surface, but it can raise questions about exclusivity, rights, and control. The smartest approach is to set boundaries early, document expectations clearly, and revisit those terms as the relationship and business(es) evolve.
Pride and Prenups
Billionaire entertainment mogul David Geffren divorced David Armstrong (also known as Donovan Michaels) after 23 months of marriage.
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For LGBTQIA+ couples, Pride Month is also a good reminder that love and legal planning are not opposites. A prenuptial agreement, for example, is a practical tool that can help protect separate property, intellectual property, and premarital assets. In 2025, billionaire entertainment mogul David Geffen made headlines when he divorced David Armstrong without a prenup, sparking conversation about matrimonial laws in California and why, generally, prenups are so useful. These agreements can be especially important for partners who built their careers independently before marriage or who acquired property before same-sex marriage was legally recognized nationwide.
Prenups can also help clarify how income, royalties, and business interests will be handled if a marriage ends. For couples with public careers or creator-driven revenue streams, like influencer Kai Cameron and his TV personality partner, James DeSantis, who recently got engaged, those protections can reduce uncertainty and preserve professional independence.
Custody and Clarity
Divorce raises familiar legal issues for all couples, but LGBTQIA+ families may face added questions about parentage, custody, and enforceability of agreements. When children are involved, it is especially important to make sure parental rights are clearly documented before a separation occurs. That is true whether the child was adopted, conceived through assisted reproduction, or has only one legal parent on paper at the time of the breakup.
For public figures, privacy protections can also become part of the divorce strategy. Confidentiality provisions, careful public statements, and clear co-parenting boundaries can help reduce conflict and protect children from unnecessary scrutiny. The most successful post-divorce arrangements are often the ones that prioritize stability, minimize public noise, and keep the focus where it belongs: on the family.
Ashlyn Harris and Ali Krieger were together for nearly a decade before their split. They have co-parenting agreements in place for their two children.
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Former professional soccer players Ashlyn Harris and Ali Krieger have been open about their experience with coparenting after their divorce. They maintain joint legal custody over their two adopted children while keeping their statements minimal and peaceful to protect their privacy as the public watches.
From Strategy to Surrogacy, Family Building for All
Family planning can look different for LGBTQIA+ couples, and the law matters at every stage. Surrogacy, sperm donation, adoption, and IVF can all require careful planning and the involvement of reproductive and family law counsel. These arrangements are not only emotional milestones; they are also legal processes that should establish parentage, protect everyone involved, and avoid future disputes.
Scott Hoying and Mark Hoying welcomed their daughter Birdie via surrogate on June 3, 2026.
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Pentatonix star Scott Hoying and his husband Mark Hoying welcomed their first child this summer via surrogacy. The couple has been open about their journey to parenthood via social media as residents of California, a surrogacy-friendly state.
TV host Andy Cohen has also been open about his journey with surrogacy and parenthood. When Cohen had his first son in 2019, compensated gestational surrogacy was illegal in his home state of New York, so the baby was born via surrogate in California. By 2022, thanks to strong advocacy, the laws around gestational surrogacy had changed, and Cohen was able to welcome his daughter in New York.
Legal preparation is so important before conception, birth, or placement. The right agreements can help intended parents secure their rights while also respecting the autonomy and protections of carriers and donors. For modern families, the lesson is simple: the more intentional the planning, the stronger the legal foundation.
From red carpets to real life, these stories underscore that modern love is as much about legal foresight as it is about romance. For LGBTQIA+ couples, understanding the rules behind the relationship is both smart and empowering.